Question 1

Are you really a trained massage therapist?

Accepted Answer

Yes. I completed my training in Swedish massage at the NSW School of Massage in Sydney. I also have experience with Thai massage and Lomi Lomi massage, and the massage I provide is a combination of these different experiences.I am also a trained facilitator with Body Electric Australia, where I run workshops for men to explore their erotic bodies, experience intimate touch and connect with themselves and others.My approach is focused on helping you relax and become more connected to your body. I use a medium-to-firm touch, with long, flowing strokes and oil. Every experience begins with a full-body back massage routine, and from there the experience develops naturally.Your massage is always tailored to you. If you have a sore spot, an area you'd like more attention on, or somewhere you'd prefer me to avoid, you can let me know and I'll adjust the massage accordingly.

Question 2

I'm a nervous first timer. What can I expect?

Accepted Answer

It’s completely normal to feel nervous, especially if this is your first experience of this kind. I have many first-time clients and my priority is to make you feel comfortable, relaxed and welcome.Before your appointment, I’ll send you a short form with a few questions about what you would like to experience. This gives you an opportunity to privately share anything you’d like me to know before you arrive.

Question 3

What happens when I arrive?

Accepted Answer

When you arrive, I’ll ask you to take a quick shower so you feel fresh and confident. My massage generally includes cock and anal touch so I ask you clean these areas well with soap. Once you are dry, you lie face down on the massage bed, I will drape you with a towel and we will start with a full back body massage routine.Some men prefer to start with their underwear on and take them off when and if they feel ready.

Question 4

Are you discreet?

Accepted Answer

Absolutely. I take privacy and confidentiality very seriously.Many of the men who visit me value discretion for a variety of reasons. Some are married or in relationships, some identify as straight, and others simply prefer to keep this part of their life private because of their work, family or personal circumstances.I will never share your personal information or identify you publicly without your permission.

Question 5

What types of men come to see you?

Accepted Answer

All kinds of men are welcome. My clients come from a wide range of ages, backgrounds, appearances, experiences and orientations.I also warmly welcome trans men and trans women. I enjoy providing a space where trans bodies are welcomed, respected and can be explored safely and with consent.

Question 6

Are we both naked during the massage?

Accepted Answer

Yes. I am naked throughout the experience, and most clients are also comfortable being naked.If you would prefer to keep your underwear on when we begin and take it off when you feel ready, that is completely fine. There is no pressure either way.

Question 7

Can I touch you during the massage?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Mutual touch is a part of the experience, and you’ll have the opportunity to explore and enjoy my body as well as receive the massage.As with everything we do, touch is always respectful, mutual and consensual.

Question 8

Do you kiss?

Accepted Answer

No, kissing is not part of my offering.

Question 9

Can I perform oral on you?

Accepted Answer

Yes, this can be part of the experience.

Question 10

Can I rim you?

Accepted Answer

Yes, this can be part of the experience.

Question 11

Can you top me?

Accepted Answer

Usually, no. Anal penetration with my cock is not a regular part of my offering. External anal massage with my hands is included in my offering.I may sometimes finger a client if that is something they enjoy, and this is something that happens naturally in the moment and always with mutual consent.In very rare circumstances, if a man wants to experience bottoming for the first time or has previously had difficulty with it, I may be open to topping him. This is uncommon and is something we would discuss beforehand.

Question 12

Do you bottom?

Accepted Answer

No, this is not part of my offering.

Question 13

Do I need to have an erection?

Accepted Answer

No. Erections are welcome but not necessary. There is no pressure to perform during your experience.

Question 14

Can I cum during the massage?

Accepted Answer

Yes. For many clients this happens towards the end of the experience. However, some men prefer not to cum.

Question 15

Do you cum?

Accepted Answer

No, this is not a part of my offering.

Question 16

Can I appear in one of your OnlyFans videos?

Accepted Answer

Generally, I don’t record during a first session. I usually only film with someone after we have had at least one session together and we both feel comfortable with it.If you’re interested in filming, you’re welcome to let me know in the pre-appointment form or simply message me about it. I’m open to meeting guys who are interested in creating content together, but it’s always a mutual decision and I will only film when we’re both genuinely comfortable.I don’t charge for sessions where we film content. Anyone who appears in one of my videos is required to complete a consent and release form before filming takes place.Consent is essential and filming is never assumed or expected. If you’re curious about the kind of content I create, you can take a look at my OnlyFans.

Question 17

I’ve seen your “First 100 Clients” series on your Instagram/TikTok. Will I become one of the client stories?

Accepted Answer

The clients featured in the series are selected randomly.When I share client stories, I always change identifying details to protect the privacy and confidentiality of the people involved. I take discretion seriously, and I will never intentionally reveal information that could identify you.If you prefer not to be featured, just let me know.

Question 18

How can I expect to feel afterwards?

Accepted Answer

My aim is for you to leave feeling relaxed and more connected to your erotic body.Every experience is different, but I want you to feel that you’ve had a positive, satisfying experience and some time to receive touch and feel cared for.

Question 19

Do you offer outcalls?

Accepted Answer

Yes. I offer outcalls to your home or hotel around the Sydney CBD area for an additional charge.

Question 20

Do you have an age restriction?

Accepted Answer

Yes. I only accept clients who are 18 or older.

TOM'S TOUCH

Sydney, Australia